"I Permit Not a Woman . . ." To Remain Shackled
Table of Contents
Acknowledgements and Dedication
Introduction
1. "Mind Control - Male and Female"
2. "Self-Examination"
3. "I Suffer Not a Woman
.To Remain Shackled?"
4. "Teachings and Practices of the Churches of Christ"
5. "Public Versus Private Meetings"
6. "Our Practices in Christian Universities, Colleges, Journalism and Drama"
7. "Woman in the Apostolic Church"
8. "Equal But Unequal?"
9. "Praying and Prophesying"
10. "Spiritual Gifts"
11. "As Also Saith the Law"
12. "Other Women, Other Scriptures"
13. "Silent - Silence - Other Thoughts"
14. "Other Considerations - What?"
15. "Prayer, Quietness, Exercising Dominion"
16. "Applying Other Scriptures"
17. "From Then Until Now - Women in The Restoration Movement"
18. "Important Questions"
19. "Clear Conclusions"
20. "Epilogue"
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Chapter 19
Clear Conclusions
The truth is that the ministry of Christ is open to Jews and Greeks,
bond men and free men, males and females. All have the equal
responsibility and task of teaching and preaching the redeeming
power of Jesus Christ.
Women prayed, sang, prophesied, spoke in tongues, interpreted
tongues, evangelized, witnessed, and taught in the total life
of the church in New Testament days. They were deaconesses and
fellow workers in the gospel with the apostles. They ministered.
Today, women in worship services and in public classes sing, teach,
exhort, encourage, read (at least responsively), say "Amen",
pass communion, pass collection trays, make announcements, confess
faith, confess fault, greet visitors, greet members, etc.
No one suggests that any of the above is a violation of the silent
(keeping one's peace) argument in I Corinthians 14, or the quiet
rule of I Timothy 2. How, then, is it possible for us to conclude
that such exceptions are permissible and that others are not?
The truth is, we have simply "reasoned" that they are
all right, primarily because tradition has passed those exceptions
down to us, and not because God has revealed these exceptions
to us. Every so-called scriptural exception, including a confession
of faith, could be done outside the regular church services in
order to obey the silent rule. Based upon Paul's command that
women are to be silent when the whole church comes together, they
could do none of the speaking acts above. No one believes that
women are to be silent. No one demands that they be silent.
So, why don't we just honestly admit it? The only possible answer
is that we are prisoners of our genes, family backgrounds, traditions,
cultures, prejudices, and ignorance.
We have decided that certain activities are men's jobs and that
women are not in subjection if they do them. This is purely human
reasoning and has nothing to do with what the Bible teaches.
An example is waiting on the table during the Lord's Supper.
What authority is exercised in "waiting on the table"
or in "passing out the trays?" There is none. Rather,
it is a sign of servitude, not dominion.
What authority is there in passing the collection trays or picking
up attendance cards? There is none! In fact, these also are
acts of servitude and not dominion!
What makes wording a prayer an act of dominion? If a brother
is asked to lead a prayer, that is not an act of dominion, but
an act of service. The song director serves the assembly, but
that is not an act of dominion. Rather, it is an act of submission
to the elders who ask him to serve. Preachers are also in submission
as they preach. A church made up of women could hire and fire
a male preacher. Service in worship is not dominion! A wife
may lead a husband to Christ and still be under his dominion.
If a twelve-year-old boy leads prayer or waits on the Lord's
table, he is not exercising dominion over the elders, deacons,
and preachers, nor over his mother and father. Serving in worship
roles doesn't mean the exercise of authority over anyone. Why
then would a woman be exercising authority over anyone if she
served the church in these roles with her talent? She doesn't
when she serves bread and drink at home. Why does it suddenly
change at an assembly?
If men really wanted to keep women in their "place,"
as tradition had dictated their "place" to be, women
should serve the men in all the above capacities. If a man or
a group of men in the church permits a woman to serve in any capacity,
that is not exercising dominion, nor is it the usurpation of authority.
Those who have authority may delegate it to anyone. The truth
is that if a woman who is qualified to serve is asked to and refuses,
that would be insubordination.
But we have already shown that there is clear textual evidence
to support women participating in the public worship of the church.
It should also be pointed out that the "silence rule"
in I Corinthians 14:34 had to do with the services where the brethren
were exercising spiritual gifts. Thus, if one wanted to be an
absolutist, he would argue that the instruction on silence had
to do only with the exercise of spiritual gifts in a particular
service, and not in other regular services of the church. Since
most of us believe that the miraculous gifts of the spirit, such
as tongues and special revelations, are past, then the instructions
on silence would no longer apply as we have traditionally interpreted
this passage in I Corinthians 14. The rule would not apply to
any other services of the church where spiritual gifts were not
being exercised. C.R. Nichols would have been right in his book,
God's Woman. Again, we must emphasize that women
in the early church had those spiritual gifts and certainly exercised
them in worship, as much as some now wish they hadn't. We simply
try to conform to our traditional interpretation of I Corinthians
14:34-35 and I Timothy 2, while we deny or reject overwhelming
evidence to the contrary.
We have pointed out that most of us allow women to praise, pray,
exhort, teach, and admonish men privately and publicly in song.
Why, then, would anyone still contend that it would be unscriptural
for them to do so without music? They can sing scriptures to
men and they can read scriptures to men privately and publicly,
individually or in unison.
They can make announcements from the pew and even ask questions
from the pew. What kind of logic or scripture would prohibit
them from doing so from the pulpit? God does not say, "Doing
so sitting down is permissible, but standing up front would be
wrong." Such an activity has nothing to do with scripture,
or dominion, or servitude, or logic, but it has everything to
do with tradition!
If women can enjoy an exception to the silence rule by singing,
they can enjoy an exception to the rule by reading, or praying,
or prophesying, or teaching, or waiting on the Lord's table.
A woman may baptize. The same command that tells her to teach
includes the command for her to baptize. Our tradition might
not allow it, but God's word does. What humbler, yet greater,
service could one Christian render to another than assisting a
convert in baptism? God did not make baptizing a man's work,
nor does He put it under his dominion.
However, in many churches, it has been the dominion of the "clergy."
In fact, some people postpone baptism until a certain preacher
is available to assist. Others boast about the preacher who baptized
them, as if it made any difference. Many members would be shocked
if a woman took a man or another woman or a boy or girl into the
baptistry to baptize them, privately or publicly. And, yet, there
is no person who could reach such a conclusion from any scriptural
text.
Women are allowed to read in the public Bible classes. They make
comments in the public Bible class. In a quiet-spirited way,
they argue for a particular truth in a public Bible class. They
do it all the time. Men ought to also so argue in the same quiet
spirit.
If they can read, comment, and argue, they can also lead a prayer.
Nowhere in the New Testament does a single writer state, "Men
only may lead in prayer," or, "only men may word prayers
in public or private worship." Such teaching is foreign
to the Bible. Our male-dominated churches and male-dominated
clergies have established this tradition, not the scriptures.
The idea of who may "lead" in prayer is not even suggested
in any scripture.
May women preach in the public service of the church? They prayed
and prophesied, spoke in tongues, interpreted tongues, gave revelations,
read or sang psalms in the Corinthian services in the first century.
What would prohibit them from doing it in the twentieth century?
Nothing but tradition or expediency.
It seems a shame that we have taken a faulty translation and interpretation
of three scriptures and have tried, with glaring multiplied inconsistencies,
to force the rest of the Bible to fit that faulty translation
and interpretation.
It is even a greater shame to recognize our glaring inconsistencies
and then draw lines of fellowship over one of these inconsistencies.
If some congregation allowed women to pass the communion up and
down the aisles, many preachers and churches would accuse such
a church of heresy. And, yet, such a practice has nothing to
do with heresy.
I submit that it would be an even greater shame to recognize the
truth and continue to keep women in the church in an inferior
position where God had not placed them. I do not wish to get
to the bar of judgment and be told by God that I discriminated
against Jews or Greeks, slaves or free men, men or women.
Women did and do have places in the public teaching and worship
of the church. I do not wish to be the one responsible for keeping
them in bondage and in unscriptural subjection by not allowing
them to exercise their God-given abilities.
There will be the shrill, strident voices against women taking
their place and exercising their talents in the life of the church.
There will be other shrill, strident voices which are just as
extreme and sinful, which demand the right of women to rule over
men, rather than understanding that in Biblical teaching wives
are to be in submission to their own husbands and that all Christians
are to be in submission to one another.
It is time for honesty, courage, and prudent action on the part
of the church. To do nothing is to fail in our commitment to
restore the New Testament church. To force congregations, before
teaching them, to accept women's new roles could be factious and
unloving. Most of our beliefs are based upon intellectual and
emotional experiences over a lifetime. Change will not be easy.
It will be easier to change intellectually than emotionally.
But we can't skirt the challenges of new compelling arguments,
nor can we, like Tevye in "Fiddler on the Roof," support
the male-domination theory in the teaching and worship in the
life of the church, simply because "we have always done it
that way," or because we have falsely believed it should
be done that way. What I have personally found hard to accept
and admit is that the Bible itself does not make the exceptions
to the silence or quietness rule. I was forced to admit that
men have decided, through the process of reasoning and tradition,
what our creed on the exceptions will be. Those exceptions vary
from church to church, congregation to congregation, and country
to country, based on men's opinions on where to draw the line.
We decide the exceptions, and we should be honest and honorable
enough to accept and admit that the Bible does not.
Serving and leading are not the same as dominion. Isaiah 11:6
says, "A child shall lead them," but this in no way
suggests that a child shall have dominion over them. Enlightened
and faithful Christians have a responsibility to prepare, teach,
guide, and, in loving ways, assist churches to come to a greater
knowledge of the truth, and to use the God-given talents of capable,
blood-bought men and women in its work and worship. Truth demands
it! Conscience demands it!
I thank God that our churches are autonomous and that each congregation
may set its own pace and make its own strides in the restoration
of the New Testament church on any subject of study, and, in particular,
the use of women in Biblical roles in the life of the church.
I consider the failure to acknowledge or even to recognize our
inconsistencies to be of greater eternal consequence than our
stubborn refusal to allow women to participate, except in our
traditionally approved ways. Why? Because that represents a
basic flaw in character. Such failure deals with intellectual
honesty, fairness and justice. We all know what the prophets
of God have said about such. We are all inconsistent. However,
when our inconsistencies are recognized, yet go unacknowledged
or unadmitted, they become hypocrisies. It is precisely at this
point that our inconsistencies become issues of Christian character.
C. Leonard Allen and Richard T. Hughes, in their book, Discovering
our Roots: The Ancestry of the Churches of Christ, made
a most significant statement on page 8: "If we assume that
our roots are entirely sacred and not profane, entirely apostolic
and not historical, entirely Biblical and not cultural, then we
have elevated ourselves above the level of common humanity, and,
in essence, made ourselves into gods."
We are not gods! However, we must continue to honestly seek Him
and His ways. This honesty forces us to admit three truths that
are central in this book:
- We do not practice what we say the Bible teaches on women's
role in the life and worship of the church. Our practices are
riddled with contradictions, inconsistencies, and selective application
of what we claim the Bible teaches.
- The Bible does not teach what we have maintained it teaches.
The man-woman translations can and should be translated husband-wife,
in our three "proof texts," if we are ever to arrive
at any consistency in what we practice and teach. It is the only
way to reconcile the obvious contradictions between these three
passages and a host of scriptures in both the Old and New Testaments,
which clearly allow women to participate in the life and worship
of God's Kingdom.
- Our traditional views of these "proof texts" fly
in the face of God's mission to save the world through teaching
and preaching His word. The talents of women are being suppressed
by our mistranslation and misapplication of those texts, in worship
and in the fulfillment of the Great Commission.
No Christian community is free of its baggage of traditions, biases,
prejudices, fears, local customs, flawed or misapplied hermeneutics,
misinterpretations, and misapplied scriptures. In fact, some
churches have been built upon a special single doctrine. The
Seventh Day Adventist Fellowship is built around the keeping of
the seventh day Sabbath. That is its most distinctive doctrine.
But, for the most part, the Christian world rejects this doctrine.
Why? Because it believes the Seventh Day Adventists are in error.
Every Christian community changes its doctrine or its practices
for many reasons. Outsiders judge such changes to be either good
or bad. Most racially segregated churches have changed both their
practices and doctrinal stances on race since 1953. Yet, before
that date, they often argued for segregation on scriptural grounds,
i.e., Ham's so-called curse.
The same arguments against admitting blacks to white churches
will be used against giving women their God-given places in the
public life of the church. "It will cause division."
"People will leave." "It will create tension."
Thank God we rose above such crude and cowardly arguments and
integrated most of our congregations because of truth. May it
so be with our women. "His truth goes marching on."
The concept of restoring the New Testament Christianity on the
basis of Biblical teaching is, in my view, valid and essential.
There is no other basis for a united church in a divided world.
Those who believe in this restoration principle still have baggage.
Otherwise, we would be united. But we are not. Every generation
debates old and new issues. No one can speak ex cathedra. Some
unofficially dare to.
The Restoration goes on. Christian integrity, intellectual honesty,
academic freedom, and a humble spirit force all men of good will
to reexamine positions, accept new truth, and move forward in
building up the Lord's Church.
In preparation for this study, I read the New Testament through
two times to try to find one thing which precluded women that
Christ or the writers taught disciples to do to spread the Kingdom,
encourage the weak, teach and preach the Gospel, comfort the troubled,
exhort, admonish, minister to the needy, serve in worship, or
supervise activities of the church. I found only one - those
who qualify for the eldership.
I believe that when I Corinthians 11:2-16; 14:34-35, and I Timothy
2:8-15 are properly translated and interpreted, all other passages
become fully consistent.
When we acknowledge the logic and scripturalness of this change
we will no longer have the hobgoblins of our "inconsistency"
staring us in the face, nor will we be forced to use highly questionable
mental gymnastics, wrested scriptures and contorted practices
to justify our present exceptions to the three proof texts.
We can maintain our moral integrity and our intellectual honesty
and get on with doing God's will in giving women their proper
place in God's Kingdom along with Greeks and slaves.
Otherwise, we will remain in our prison cells with the bars in
place on the windows. We will live in a state of denial while
we continue conducting seminars on "Why the world will not
come to Christ" or "Why so many are leaving the church"
and "Why we can't all see the Bible alike."
Informed, thoughtful, and courageous people will no longer take
the pat, uninformed, contradictory and inconsistent answers given
by the dominant male figures in the church on these hard questions.
Free men and women - freed by the blood of Christ - will no longer
follow those in authority who put them in or keep them in shackles
of intellectual and spiritual slavery. Serious, qualified leaders
will respond to truth and positive change in the church.
Others, sadly, will die from an imposed slavery of the minds and
souls of the membership. Many will resist Biblical change and
further search for truth and remain shackled by the need for acceptance
and the security of our traditions. Like children with their
security blankets, some brethren will refuse to turn loose the
baggage which both binds and blinds, because the comfort of assumed
orthodoxy has become more important than their quest to more fully
understand God's will. Some also need to dominate others, especially
women. Many will continue to get their satisfaction and status
from dominion, rather than shared service.
May it not be so among discerning Christians. May God give us
the wisdom and courage to expand and enhance the restoration of
God's Kingdom.
 
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