"I Permit Not a Woman . . ." To Remain Shackled
Table of Contents
Acknowledgements and Dedication
Introduction
1. "Mind Control - Male and Female"
2. "Self-Examination"
3. "I Suffer Not a Woman
.To Remain Shackled?"
4. "Teachings and Practices of the Churches of Christ"
5. "Public Versus Private Meetings"
6. "Our Practices in Christian Universities, Colleges, Journalism and Drama"
7. "Woman in the Apostolic Church"
8. "Equal But Unequal?"
9. "Praying and Prophesying"
10. "Spiritual Gifts"
11. "As Also Saith the Law"
12. "Other Women, Other Scriptures"
13. "Silent - Silence - Other Thoughts"
14. "Other Considerations - What?"
15. "Prayer, Quietness, Exercising Dominion"
16. "Applying Other Scriptures"
17. "From Then Until Now - Women in The Restoration Movement"
18. "Important Questions"
19. "Clear Conclusions"
20. "Epilogue"
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Chapter 16
Applying Other Scriptures
The Jews killed Christ to stop His message. Peter, at first,
would not accept the fact that the Gentiles could be saved. Do
we do the same thing when we limit able and informed women in
teaching and preaching Christ to the lost? Or building up the
saints? Or encouraging the fainthearted?
Ephesians 2:20 says, "The household of God was built upon
the apostles and the prophets, Christ Jesus himself being the
chief cornerstone." There are New Testament prophets, like
Philip's daughters. Corinthian women were instructed to seek
the better gift, that of prophecy. Upon them the church was also
built.
I Thessalonians 4:8 reads, "Wherefore comfort one another
with these words." Were men only to teach these words and
give comfort? Or could women use these words regarding the second
coming to comfort men and women alike? It is obvious that all
the brethren in the church were to do the comforting of one another,
privately and publicly.
If these brethren, by reading and teaching, comforted the congregation
about the second coming of Christ, on what logical basis would
we conclude that this instruction to "one another" would
be any different from the singing to "one another" in
Ephesians and Colossians, which we claim included women speaking
in song in worship settings? If, in the assembly, women can teach
others in psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, why could they not
also be included in this command to "comfort one another"
with the words of the apostle Paul in a public assembly? To do
otherwise is to be selective in application of similar rules.
Certainly the command was not that "men only" do the
comforting with Paul's words, nor was such comforting restricted
to private gatherings any more than singing was.
In Ephesians 5:11 Paul says, "Wherefore exhort one another
and build each other up." Each Christian, man and woman,
was involved in this command. The exhortation and the building
up were obviously to be done by both men and women. There is
no more indication that the building up and the exhortation were
limited to men, than singing was limited to men. Paul concluded
this verse by saying, "Even as also ye do." Every church
member is included. To suggest that women could not be doing
their exhorting and building up in both public and private is
to "wrest" the scripture, defy logic, and go against
what we allow in our interpretation of Ephesians 5 and Colossians
3.
"And we exhort you brethren, admonish the disorderly, encourage
the fainthearted, support the weak, be longsuffering toward all,
see that none render unto any evil, but always follow after that
which is good one toward another and toward all. Rejoice always,
pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks, for this is the
will of God in Christ Jesus to you, quench not the spirit, despise
not prophesying, prove all things, hold fast to that which is
good, abstain from every form of evil." (I Thessalonians
5:14-22). No one would argue that "men only" were to
exhort the brethren. Paul instructed "Thessalonian Christians,"
men and women, to exhort the brethren. And, the same group was
to admonish the disorderly. The same group was to pray without
ceasing and give thanks in everything. They were not to quench
the spirit, nor despise prophesying; all these activities were
done by men and women.
The same reasoning which allows women to speak to men under "one
another" in the assembly in song will allow women to "speak
to one another" in fulfilling all of the above instructions
by the apostle Paul. Today, most of this is already done in public
Bible classes, rather than other public worship services of the
church, by women. But it is done. Those who were to pray without
ceasing and to give thanks in all situations were not men only.
Who was to "lead" in prayer is not remotely suggested,
here or anywhere else. The word "lead" is not used
in the New Testament as we use it most often.
Paul orders them not to despise prophesying. He did not say "prophesying
by men." What if there were women prophets? Were they forbidden
to prophesy? What if no men had the gift of prophecy and women
did? Could the Thessalonians despise their prophecies because
they were uttered by women? God was the one who gave her the
gift in the first place, so the church could profit. By despising
the prophesying of a woman who had the gift, one would despise
God's revelation and reject Paul's instruction in this passage.
Someone will reply, "But if she prophesies she is usurping
authority." This is not so. God gave her a message of prophecy
she uttered to the benefit of the church. They listened to her
prophesy. There is no wresting of authority from anyone. By
giving women the gift of prophecy, He gave them the authority
to speak. You can't get any authority higher than this. Telling
God's truth in any situation is not exercising authority over
people. They voluntarily come to listen; they can voluntarily
leave. Only tradition calls this an exercise of dominion - the
Bible does not.
I Thessalonians 5:27, "I adjure you, by the Lord, that this
epistle be read by all the brethren." Again, we must emphasize
that women were permitted to sing, by the instruction to sing,
and should also be allowed to follow this instruction on reading.
Only tradition precludes them from doing so, not scripture or
logic. Would women be restricted to reading it to themselves
while alone? Or to a group of other women only? To illiterate
brethren? Or to all brethren? This scripture does not place
a restriction on women reading this epistle publicly or privately.
I Corinthians 16:15 reads, "Now I beseech ye brethren (ye
know the house of Stephanas, they were the first fruits of Achaia,
and they have set themselves to minister to the saints), that
ye also be in subjection unto such, and to everyone who helpeth
in the work and laboreth." This leading household was a
ministering household, and one would well imagine that the wife
or perhaps the daughters were involved with men in its ministry
and leadership. Paul included the whole household. He further
says that they had set themselves (plural - more than Stephanas
himself) to the ministry of the saints, and told the Corinthian
church to be in subjection to such, and to everyone, including
male and female members, who work and labor. Women would certainly
be included in the command if they also helped in the work and
labored. The only reason to argue that they would be in submission
to Stephanas and other men only, would be to maintain our false
assumptions from the applicable texts. Such a conclusion does
not come from the text.
In I Corinthians 16:19 he writes, "Aquila and Priscilla salute
you much in the Lord with the church that is in their house."
This husband-and-wife team was involved in the work of the church.
If Priscilla had the knowledge and the skills to help teach one
who was mighty in the scriptures like Apollos, why would anyone
doubt that she also taught men and women of lesser knowledge who
came to her house for worship and study?
In Galatians 3:27,28 Paul writes, "For as many of you as
were baptized into Christ did put on Christ. There can be neither
Jew nor Greek, there can be neither bond nor free, there can be
no male and female, for ye are all one man in Christ Jesus."
This passage clearly teaches that Jews have no special privilege
over Greeks since both have the same baptism and both have put
on the same Christ. It is true that the Jews had the greater
knowledge of scripture, but Greeks could still preach, teach,
etc. Free men have no special privilege over bond men, for they
too put on the same Christ in baptism. It is true that slaves
were subject to masters, but they could still read, teach, prophesy,
etc. in worship. How could we thus conclude that the equality
between men and women was somehow different, since both male and
female had put on the same Christ through baptism and had enjoyed
the same spiritual gifts? Women could speak in tongues and prophesy,
teach, sing, and pray right along side free men, bond men, Jews
and Greeks.
Paul says all of the above are "one." If "one,"
why should each not respect the others' gifts and talents and
allow them to be used for the benefit of all? Certainly Gentiles,
who knew the word, could teach Jews who had accepted Christ.
Masters could teach slaves, and slaves could teach masters. And
males could teach females, and females could teach males. They
are all one in Christ Jesus, and any one of them could edify and
teach the other.
Would anyone argue that a sister in the Galatian church, who might
have had an early privilege of learning the truth about being
saved by grace rather than works, could not teach this truth to
Galatian Christians who did not understand it? If she moved elsewhere
and some false concepts about justification by works of the law
were held, would God want her to remain silent? Would she let
heresy flourish because she was to be in submission to uninformed
men and thus be forbidden to teach?
In Galatians 6:1 Paul writes, "Brethren, if a man be overtaken
in a trespass, ye who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit
of meekness, looking to yourselves lest thou also be tempted."
Would anyone argue that spiritual women in a small church would
have to remain silent and in submission if there were only a couple
of men in the congregation and both of them were ignorant, in
error in doctrine, and were living unholy lives? What is applicable
and permissible in a small church is likewise applicable and permissible
in a big church. A godly woman has the same responsibility to
restore the fallen and to keep the life and the doctrine of the
church pure as men have.
In Ephesians 3:14 Paul writes, "For this cause I bow my knees
unto the father from whom every family in heaven and earth is
named, that He would grant you, according to the riches of His
glory, that ye may be strengthened with power through His spirit
in the inward man. That Christ might dwell in your hearts through
faith, to the end that ye, being rooted and grounded in love,
may be strong to apprehend with all the saints what is the breadth
and length, and height, and depth, and to know the love of Christ
which passeth knowledge that ye may be filled with all the fullness
of God."
Paul, in the above prayer, included all Christians at Ephesus,
men and women. To this mixed group of saints he taught in chapter
4:11-13 that apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, teachers
in the church were there for the perfecting of the saints.
Would anyone argue that his prayer for all the saints in Ephesus
for inner strength through the spirit was limited to male members?
Godly, informed, spirit-empowered women had a role in the ministries
and the maturation of the church. Women could teach against or
cry out against the evils of vanity, darkened understanding, alienation,
ignorance, hard hearts, and lasciviousness condemned in verses
17-19 of chapter 4. They could, and they should.
In Ephesians 5:1-14, Paul addresses a number of sins from foolish
talking to fornication to other unfruitful works of darkness,
and he tells the church to reprove such. He does in no way limit
those who do the reproving to men. In fact, all Christians have
the responsibility.
Ephesians 5:22-23 deals with wives being in subjection to their
husbands. It is interesting that Paul said, "Wives, be in
subjection to your own husbands." This strengthens the argument
that the women who were to be in subjection were only to be in
subjection to their "own" husbands, not to other husbands
in the church, just as they were to ask their "own"
husbands at home, in I Corinthians 14. The men of the church
have no right to force women of the church to be in subjection
to them. My wife isn't in subjection to another woman's husband!
This also strengthens the argument of a mistranslation of "gune"
and "aner" in chapters 11 and 14 of I Corinthians, and
in I Timothy 2. Just as in this passage from Ephesians, husband
and wife would be the consistent, logical, and preferred translation
in the three texts with which we are dealing.
Ephesians 5:22-33 clarifies what "as also saith the law"
means. It is quite clear that a Christian wife is to submit to
and recognize her husband as her head from this passage, as did
the law. In every organization, someone must be ultimately in
charge, if it is to stay together and function well. So with
the home. The only requirement in the law was the Eve was to
be ruled over by her "own" husband, Adam, nothing more.
Headship in the home, however, does not mean in the slightest
way to suggest trampling on the rights of the wife. In fact,
just the opposite is true. Paul said, "Husbands, love your
wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for it,"
Ephesians 5:25. The head of the house is to have a self-sacrificing
love for the wife.
The husband is to "love his wife as his own body," verse
28. "Nevertheless, do ye also love each one his own wife
even as himself, and let the wife see that she fear (or reverence)
her husband," verse 33. To love one's wife as one's own
body is to be considerate of her needs, as a husband is of his
own needs. To "fear" is to respect or reverence one's
husband to whom God has given ultimate responsibility in ruling
the home.
There is nothing in this passage which makes a wife inferior or
a husband superior. Nor were husbands made inferior because wives
taught them. Rather, this passage from Ephesians is God's instruction
on how the relationship of the husband and the wife should be
viewed. Husbands should not oppress their wives nor suppress
their God-given talents; neither should the church.
In Ephesians 6:13-20 Paul writes, "Wherefore take up the
whole armour of God." The battle is not to be fought by
male church members only. Women are also to gird themselves for
battle. They, too, are to take "the sword of the spirit
which is the word of God." If a godly Christian woman has
an opportunity to exhort, teach, reprove, and rebuke evil men,
men in error, or ignorant men, who would or could believe that
God would want her to retreat from the battle in silence and let
evil, error, and ignorance prevail to the destruction of men's
souls? If Christians, male or female, can teach, exhort, and
rebuke evil non-Christian men, why could they not teach, exhort
and rebuke Christian men in error?
Women, just like the apostle Paul, should want fellow Christians
to pray that they too might "make known with boldness the
mystery of the gospel" (Ephesians 6:9). Can we believe that
God would want men to remain in error and be lost, and that able,
gifted women stand by maintaining silence? If they, by opening
their mouths, saved one man, Jesus said, "that soul would
be worth more than all the world." What scripture or logic
would restrain women from preaching and teaching truth, thereby
converting or restoring men?
Do we really think that God wants women to snatch souls like Apollos
from Satan only in private classes; and that the same God prohibits
her from snatching souls from Satan in a "humanly" defined
and circumscribed public service?
Could women, if given the opportunity, speak up for truth and
righteousness, with God's approval, in a Presbyterian church?
A Baptist church? A Methodist church? A Catholic church? A
Unification Church? Then why not in any Church of Christ with
God's approval? Would God prefer that any errors that may be
taught to the above listed religious groups be allowed to prevail
because of the "silence" argument of I Corinthians 14:35?
Or would He want women to instruct all people more perfectly
in the way of righteousness? Why would He then prohibit the same
women from instructing the Churches of Christ more perfectly in
the way of righteousness?
God would not prefer that error, in any church, be allowed to
prevail because tradition says informed women were commanded to
keep silent and not to teach men.
In Philippians 1:9-10 Paul says, "And this I pray, that your
love may abound more and more in knowledge and discernment, so
that ye may approve what is excellent." God would not want
only Christian men to so abound. What if brothers did not so
abound and Christian sisters did? Whom would God want to do the
public and private teaching in the church at Philippi: knowledgeable,
discerning women or ignorant, undiscerning men, or both knowledgeable
and discerning men and women?
In regard to the preaching of Christ from insincere motives, Paul
says, "What then? Only that in every way, whether in pretense
or in truth Christ is proclaimed; and therein I rejoice, yea and
will rejoice." If Paul could rejoice that Christ was preached
from impure motives, how could we believe he would condemn women
for preaching Christ with pure motives?
Throughout the book of Colossians, Paul encourages the church
to grow spiritually and to watch out for false teachers and fleshly
pursuits. He reiterates the charge to wives (gune) to be in subjection
to husbands (aner), not men, in 3:18.
The whole church was to continue in singing and giving of thanks
in 3:16-17. They were to continue to be steadfast in prayer in
4:2. In 4:6 he says, "Let your speech be always with grace,
seasoned with salt that ye may know how to answer every one."
Certainly both men and women had an opportunity to teach and
instruct and to give the right kind of answers to everyone. And
the "everyone" certainly included men in the church
as well as women. This was a general command.
When Paul concluded this letter, 4:10-17, he again listed the
fellow workers and included "Nymphas and the church that
is in their house." There is textual evidence that this
passage could have been translated, "Nymphas and the church
at her house." If so, it is another bit of evidence that
yet another woman, who was a fellow worker worthy of Paul's salutation,
had a church meeting at her house. There are tens of thousands
of husbands and wives who are "fellow workers," doing
the same things in a business they operate and in the home they
live in, with no distinction in roles played. Why would we conclude
that women could not be in the public ministry as were men in
Paul's labors?
I have heard some argue, "But God's ways are not man's ways,
and therefore, He has a good reason of His own for keeping women
silent." Such is a "cop out" and rejects the logical
implications of the great commission, the mercy of God, and these
passages.
I Peter 4:7-11
But the end of all things is at hand; be ye therefore of sound
mind, and be sober unto prayer; above all things be fervent in
your love among yourselves; for love covereth a multitude of sins;
using hospitality one to another without murmuring; according
as each hath received a gift, ministering it among yourselves,
as good stewards of the manifold grace of God; if anyone speaketh,
speaking as it were the oracles of God; if any man minister, ministering
as the strength which God supplieth; that in all things God may
be glorified through Jesus Christ who is the glory and the dominion
for ever and ever. Amen.
Peter again seems to reiterate in synopsis form the message of
Paul in I Corinthians 11-14. "Be sober unto prayer,"
verse 8. "Above all things be fervent in your love,"
verse 8. "Each one hath received a gift," verse 10.
"Use your gift to minister it among yourselves," verse
10. And, whether it is speaking the oracles of God or ministering,
it is to be done to the glory of God.
There is no justification to conclude that speaking, as it were,
the oracles of God was a man's domain any more than was using
hospitality in verse 9 or being sober unto prayer and fervent
in love, verses 7-8. In I Peter 5:5 he says, "Yea all of
you gird yourselves with humility to serve one another."
The greatest service any man or woman could render to others
would be teaching them the unsearchable riches of Christ, saving
the lost and strengthening the saved. God would have a Christian
make these unsearchable riches known to any person, man or woman,
anytime, anywhere that he or she has the opportunity.
Peter says, in II Peter 3:9, "The Lord is not slack concerning
His promise as some count slackness; but is longsuffering to you,
not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to
repentance. In verse 18, he admonishes the Christians to "grow
in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ."
Our longsuffering God would certainly want a Christian woman,
who had grown in the grace and knowledge of God, to teach those
who had not come to repentance and to teach those who had not
grown in the grace and knowledge as she had, regardless if it
were a man or a woman.
Jude 3
Beloved, while I was giving all diligence to write unto you of
our common salvation, I was constrained to write unto you, exhorting
you to contend earnestly for the faith which was once for all
delivered unto the saints.
There is no limit in this scripture or in logic that men only
were the ones to contend earnestly for their faith, nor does Jude
limit those who "snatch the lost out of a fire" in verse
22, to men. Women can debate issues and contend for truth as
well as men.
 
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