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CHAPTER 7
ADDING GUILT TO ANXIETY
We all have heard those lessons about worrying. Selected passages
are emphasized: "I tell you, do not be anxious
"
(Matt. 6:2534); "Have no anxiety about anything"
(Phil. 4:6). The conclusion: It is sinful to worry, because we
are commanded to have no anxiety about anything. Such a simplistic
explanation does not always help the listener.
You are diagnosed as having a malignancy, and I advise, "lust
don't worry about it!" Your business is failing, and I urge,
"Don't be concerned." Your daughter is missing, and
I admonish you, "It is a sin to be anxious!" A world
is dying in sin, and I explain, "You should carry no burden
of care, for anxiety is sinful!" Those answers are as inappropriate
as telling a person not to become hungry when he has no food,
not to hurt because of a smashed thumb, or not to grieve for the
companion taken by death. Such advice may seem pious and high-sounding,
but it is impractical and guiltinducing. It would stifle
the basic feelings and emotions which social beings share, and
it would add a weight of guilt to the burden of concern.
To seek to relieve anxiety by asserting that one is commanded
not to worry is no more effective than trying to produce faith
by declaring that one is commanded to believe. To be effective,
we must teach what will produce faith and what will relieve anxiety.
Jesus had extreme anxieties. His temptation was real, and it brought
overwhelming concern. In the garden he "began to be greatly
distressed and troubled
My soul is very sorrowful, even
to death
" (Mark 14:33f). In the depth of distress he
prayed, "Father, if thou art willing, remove this cup from
me
there appeared to him an angel from heaven strengthening
him. And being in an agony he prayed more earnestly and his sweat
became like great drops of blood falling down on the ground"
(Luke 22:41f). And think of this: "In the days of his flesh,
Jesus offered up prayers and supplications, with loud cries and
tears, to him who was able to save him from death, and he was
heard for his godly fear" (Heb. 5:7). Does that sound like
one who had no worries?
These passages reveal such intense anxiety in Jesus as he approached
the cross that he feared that the trauma would kill him physically
before his atoning sacrifice could be completed. But the Father
heard his loud, fearful cries and sent an angel to sustain him,
thus saving him from that abortive death.
Life with no anxieties does not exist. "Look at the birds,"
Jesus urges in teaching about anxiety. I watch the birds eating
crumbs on the patio. They make a few quick pecks and then look
around to see if they are in danger. Their constant anxiety causes
them to interrupt their eating every few seconds. And have you
not seen the anxieties of a mother bird as she watches her fledglings
leave the nest and begin testing their wings? Evidently, Jesus'
teachings about anxiety have some limitation in their application.
When Jesus taught, "Do not be anxious about your life,"
he must have been setting an ideal to be sought rather than commanding
the absolute achievement of that state of mind in all circumstances.
Paul had anxieties. After Epaphroditus had recovered from near
death, Paul sent him to Philippi "that you may rejoice at
seeing him again, and that I may be less anxious" (Phil.
2:28). Anxiety over Titus moved that devout preacher to walk away
from an open opportunity to preach at Troas: "When I came
to Troas to preach the gospel of Christ, a door was opened for
me in the Lord; but my mind could not rest because I did not find
my brother Titus there. So I took leave of them and went into
Macedonia" (2 Cor. 2:12). Also, he wrote of "the pressure
upon me of my anxiety for all the churches" (2 Cor. 11:28).
Other evidences of his anxieties are seen in the Scriptures.
When Paul urged the Philippians to "Have no anxiety about
anything," he must have considered that to be a sublime state
of mind which he himself had not reached rather than an absolute
achievement of mental discipline necessary for salvation.
Some anxieties are helpful. They stir us to appropriate activity
to relieve the need or solve the problem. They move us to treat
our cancer, search for the missing child, work to evangelize the
lost, and to pray and to depend upon God.
A courageous man once stated, "I enjoy myself most when I
am scared." He was spurred to do greater things then. Fear,
rightly directed, is the father of courage. It stimulates the
adrenaline and brings out the best in us.
Some anxieties hinder. Anxieties must be acted upon or they can
become paralyzing. One of the words used by Jesus means more literally
"to draw in different directions, to distract." When
we permit worries to build so as to distract us from trust in
God or from acting to solve the source of the anxiety, then Jesus
would rebuke us also with: "Don't be anxious, you of little
faith." But to bear guilt for weakness of faith would only
add greater burden by further straining the faith that allowed
the worry in the first place.
Some anxieties help us to attack our problems to solve them; others
tend to enlarge and multiply the problems. Some worries lead to
joy; others rob of all joy. Jesus would have us to be free of
anxieties, not because total mental discipline which overrides
emotions is necessary for salvation, but so that we may enjoy
a fuller, happier life as a disciple.
Mary V. Littrell expressed it nicely in her little poem:
A traveler crossed a frozen stream
In trembling fear one day;
Later a teamster drove across,
And whistled all the way.
Great faith and little faith alike
Were granted safe convoy;
But one had pangs of needless fear,
The other all the joy!
 
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